Why “Grow Thicker Skin” Is Bad Advice

Sensitivity isn’t exactly embraced in our culture. It’s considered weak, whiny, and vulnerable. It’s much better to be impassive, indifferent, and thick-skinned. Here’s another idea. “Grow thicker skin” is some of the most useless...

How to Book a Private Stonehenge Tour

A few years back, I was lucky enough to visit a spot that’s on many a bucket list: Stonehenge. Travel snobs will tell you it’s overrated and there are better places to visit. Maybe I’m basic, but you have to be pretty spoiled not to appreciate the...

How Inertia Can Wreck Your Finances

As a journalist with mild social anxiety, I often dread interviewing people in person. It makes me nervous, I worry I won’t ask the right questions, and I’ll look dumb. Don’t get me wrong, every time I interview someone, I’m glad to have done it. Not only...

Why “Being Present” Is So Difficult

Back in the day, I used to go to loud, crowded, sweaty concerts. It was never really my thing, I mostly hugged the wall and gripped my drink, but a friend in our circle was so into it. One night, jumping around, he turned to me and shouted, “Man, this is my...